If you’re a leader, show your #vulnerability. Don’t pretend to be tough. Don’t hide your doubt or pain or fear. Your job is not to make those you lead think you’re invincible. Your job is to show them they can also lead when they’re feeling vulnerable.
#Leadership
Trans | Ship of Theseus
How many fellow #trans people spent far too much time before coming out thinking about Theseus and has damned ship and is it the same ship or not and does it even matter if it is or not and how if you think of your body as a ship, and replacing different parts and...
A friend asked me today, in all seriousness, whether or not my #transition has affected my stance on astrology. 😅
I will say this: going femme does force you to reckon with a hormonal cycle of sorts. And once you’ve had your emotions spun around a few times on an invisible calendar wheel, it doesn’t seem quite as crazy to imagine other, invisible, cyclic forces affecting your behavior. 🎡
That, and sitting on a Zoom with friends and some tea, figuring out how Mars being in retrograde is responsible for all the troubles in your life is exactly the right sort of therapy for a Wednesday afternoon. 🫖
#Assange is a misogynist dickmonkey, but this letter from the #NYT and other major news outlets calling for the US to drop the charges against him is spot on. We cannot and should not throw #pressfreedom under the bus just because the defendant kinda sucks https://www.nytco.com/press/an-open-letter-from-editors-and-publishers-publishing-is-not-a-crime/
Ohio HB454 which would have banned gender affirming care for all trans youth, appears to be dead for 2022! This is the bill Jeopardy champion Amy Schneider testified against!
It will likely be introduced again, but this is a huge victory!
Welcome to #TransTuesday! Today we’re going to dive into another movie with an incredible trans allegory that says something truly wonderful about trans folks. We’re starting THE INTENTIONAL TRANS ALLEGORY OF REAL GENIUS, part 1 - CONTEXT AND PJ TOROKVEI.
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Transfem Book Recommendations
Can I have some recommendations for #trans #transfem #transfemme books?
* Any genre please.
* Fiction & non-fiction welcome.
* I do love SF/F and would especially appreciate some in this category.
* Any intended audience age.
Also, does anyone keep some sort of running list you could point to?
Ah, writers of the 18th century 📜 Why would you simply say 'brothel' when you could say 'seminary for initiating youth in the mysteries of the Paphian Queen' ... ?
(Public Advertiser, 2 Aug 1791)
Before I was reduced to a semi-liquid diet, my most-recent #cooking discovery was adding a splash of black coffee and apple cider vinegar to onions while grilling them. They come out smokey and sweet, and fold into scrambled eggs beautifully.
The front door of the Finca Ferdabella coffee farm, Boquete, Panama. #photography #4x5
My parents used to own a small coffee farm in rural Panama. I took this photo on my very last visit, as we were cleaning it up to be sold.
🏳️⚧️ Proudly Trans
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