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✨The people at Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity chose my work on the myth that 80% of trans kids ‘grow out of it’ as the lead article for their latest issue, making it available for free! Make sure to read and share!🌈

psycnet.apa.org/record/2021-80

@annehelen You can do it!

In my experience, the hardest part is weening yourself off of that ♥️ counter.

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Okay am I really going to use this, this time around?

Kitchen Knowledge 

Brown Sugar is just sugar mixed with molasses. 😘

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So my wife took our 4 year old daughter to the mall yesterday and they came back with astronaut Barbie and later in the evening built a Lego rocket for her. A+ parenting from my wife right there 👏

If you don’t know what a popover is, or you’ve never had a good one, I weep for you. I’ve made them so many times that I don’t even need a recipe.

The same can’t be said for the cookies: the recipe my mother used came from her mother who usually sourced her recipe’s from her friends and her bridge club.

My grandmother passed earlier this year. I hadn’t spoken with her, or anyone else on that side for years. Originally, this was because of a legal battle over her estate, of which I was trustee for a time; in the final year, because I’d come out as trans, and that was a few bridges too far for their brand of 1950’s liberalism.

Thankfully, I was able to find a recipe online that lined up well with my memory of the key ingredients. I made them last night, and the results were deeply soothing.

Highly recommended.

goodlifeeats.com/recipe-exchan

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My father’s family was Jewish. If my mother’s family ever had a religion, they chose not to share it with their children. Neither of my parents were even the slightest bit religious.

Holidays at my parent’s house were crow-assembled: bits and bobs of different traditions—nothing sacred, nothing pure; nothing consistent from one year to the next.

So, when the holidays come up over the horizon, I don’t have a lot of rituals to cling to. The tidings I crave are really just two baked goods that were usually to be found in my parents’ kitchen around the end of the year:

1. chocolate gingerbread cookies (light on the ginger, heavy on the cloves);
2. popovers.

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@rooster Oh, I get this. I remember tiptoeing up to the line of becoming a police officer for basically the same reasons. 🙃

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It's cool how we can talk about being women on here without randoms popping up every few minutes to ask what a woman is :P

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I once got literally 10 pages from the end of a novel, before the big reveal or whatever, realized I'd been unsatisfied throughout the entire book, didn't care about the main character or the outcome and despite the sunken cost and time investment to get to this point, it literally wasn't worth it to me to read another word.

So, I put down the book without ever reading through the rest of the pages, and I started another one.

This post isn't about transitioning, but it could be.

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If your web/app won’t let me paste a password your web/app is shitty

If your Corp policy is to make me change my password every 30/60/90 days your security is shitty

If I can’t use passwordless and/or authenticator sign in, you’re making us both less safe.

Do the right things. #InfoSec

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When I was a kid, my dad got fired from his job as a road worker for theft.

I refused to believe he could do such a thing, but when I got home…

The signs were all there.

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@stevestreza 💯 Couldn’t agree more, except to say that any adaption that not only stands alone, but _towers_ is a castle unto itself.

I won’t lie, I feel some pride whenever I come in to the office. 🥰

@tillybridges OMG. Fringe. Torv. Fringe was my happy place for a whole string of really hard years. And she was 🤩 AMAZING.

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we have started a #Fringe rewatch and oh hey HELLO there’s my crush on Anna Torv still going strong I see

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Basic models of flocking behavior are controlled by three simple rules: 1) separation: avoid crowding neighbours (short range repulsion); 2) alignment: steer towards average heading of neighbors; 3) cohesion: steer towards average position of neighbors (long range attraction). With these three simple rules, the flock moves in an extremely realistic way.