Trans awareness 0: repair people come to the house, I'm "he" and "sir" despite having changed clothes and stuff
Trans awareness 1: hair gets longer, I do the voice work, I'm now "ma'am" and "miss" but the repair people also address me like I don't understand the functioning of my own house
Trans awareness n+1: something shifts and the repair people revert to addressing me like I know what I'm doing, which baffles me until I remember we just put up the pride flag