The thing that threatens my transition the most is the daily patterns of life that push me into all the male-defined roles that my traditional wife has assigned to me.

I’m trying to think of them as the big bitch broad roles, but it’s kind of hard when my wife forgets that I love cooking and sewing and says “we need to do X” and it’s obviously “YOU need to” because she’s not gonna do X since that’s “a man’s job.”