@bumpus In the beginning, as we come out, we need to keep track of who knows what—to maintain records of our different manifestations across social contexts—but there will be a line you will cross, eventually, where that stops, and you are just you, and everyone else has to update _their_ records of who you are, as you grow and change—all that bookkeeping delegated.

It’s going to feel really good when you get there. 🥰